For me, to be a good husband and to be good father is by giving a quality time to your baby and to your wife and also maintain the good relationship that you had started. So if there is some misunderstanding arising i always see to it that it will talk about so that it will be settled as soon possible.
One of the most important thing in a family is constant communication among the member of the family by sharing experience, by having this things you are creating a harmonious and peaceful family. So to make it more concrete, I look around the globe to find some helpful tips.
And here is some of the tips that brought into my attention:
learn to give than expecting from your wife.
stop worrying if your wife got extra marital affair.
trust yourself before doubting your wife.
give importance,give attention to your wife even if she ignores you, specially in a group.
make her feel she is special and you want her and need her.
be a good friend to your wife,
share feelings with her.
help baby change.
give quality time to family.
spend maximum time with new born baby and new mom(my wife).
get gift for her.
surprise her with dinner and flowers.
I had a great weekend with my family and did not let worries about work distract me from our time together (except that I had some back pains, which I think are from work anxiety, so maybe I suppressed work too much, and caused it to come out physically?)
I hope it will help to those father and husband or to those men who are planning to have their own family sooner or later.
God Bless Us Always
Aug 26, 2008 at 14:24:12
I guess my father skipped to read this kind of tips when we were once a family. -_-
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Aug 29, 2008 at 08:35:48
Maybe yes but we don’t know what is really the real true about this things, did you ever have a time to talk about this matter as man?
Aug 29, 2008 at 09:51:55
@henshin – perhaps there was no internet connection during the time you were still a family lol…
@danzrev – good for you that you always try to make up a good family because it’s what most children don’t have nowadays. Just keep it up.
Aug 29, 2008 at 11:58:26
@Dane
Thank you!, yes i will always see to it that my family is always good and together.
Sep 1, 2008 at 10:41:39
i’m happy for you!
Answered prayer ka for them..
Keep up the good work..
Goodluck and Godspeed!
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Sep 1, 2008 at 13:23:55
@Jean
Thanks jean and God Bless you too. I wish to you all the good things for your life advance Merry Christmas.
Sep 4, 2008 at 10:40:10
Nice tips man. Keep up the good work.
I love your blog by the way.
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